Insight on Salary Negotiation & Identifying Unprofessional Hiring Practices

Published on 06/02/2025Hiring & Talent Acquisition Insights

Analysis Result:

The post details a candidate's negative experience after turning down a job offer for a 'procurement specialist' role. The hiring manager unprofessionally accused the candidate of wasting their time. The core issues were that the role was significantly misrepresented (broader responsibilities than advertised, potentially different location) and the offer was lowball, despite the candidate feeling overqualified based on the initial job description.

This highlights critical job-seeking skills: firm negotiation, identifying red flags (role misrepresentation, disrespectful behavior from hiring managers, lowball offers, scope creep), and the importance of valuing one's own qualifications and time. The community consensus validated the candidate's decision, emphasizing that interviews are a two-way street and, in this case, the company wasted the candidate's time.

This situation serves as an 'opportunity' to learn and reinforce crucial job-seeking and career management skills, particularly in self-advocacy, due diligence during the interview process, and recognizing when to walk away from a bad offer.

Hot Skills, Tools, and Qualifications (as demonstrated or needed by the candidate):

  • Skills:
    • Assertiveness: Standing up for oneself when faced with unprofessionalism or unfair offers.
    • Negotiation: Ability to assess an offer against one's qualifications and market value, and to reject offers that don't meet expectations.
    • Critical Evaluation: Analyzing job descriptions versus actual role details revealed during interviews.
    • Red Flag Identification: Spotting warning signs like role misrepresentation, disrespectful communication, and lowball offers.
    • Due Diligence: Probing for clarity on job scope, responsibilities, and compensation.
  • Tools (Implied):
    • Online Job Boards: For initial application.
    • Company Review Sites (e.g., Glassdoor): For researching company culture and salary benchmarks (as suggested by a commenter for leaving a review).
  • Qualifications (Demonstrated by the candidate's stance):
    • Self-awareness of one's market value and qualifications.
    • Clear salary expectations.
    • Professionalism in communication, even when met with unprofessionalism.

Possible Job Opportunities: While this post doesn't describe a good job opportunity, it informs how to find one:

  • Seek employers who are transparent about job roles and compensation from the outset.
  • Look for companies with positive reviews regarding their hiring process and employee treatment.
  • Focus on roles where the interview process feels respectful and like a genuine two-way conversation.

Resume/Application Direction:

  • Be prepared to clearly articulate salary expectations early in the process (if appropriate, or when asked) to avoid wasting time on roles that won't meet financial needs.
  • During interviews, proactively ask detailed questions about role responsibilities, team structure, and company culture to ensure alignment with the advertised position and personal expectations.
  • While not for the resume itself, maintain a list of non-negotiables (e.g., minimum salary, role clarity, respectful treatment) to guide the job search and decision-making.

Expected Benefit (from applying these learnings):

  • Securing roles that are accurately represented and fairly compensated.
  • Avoiding toxic work environments and disrespectful employers by recognizing warning signs early.
  • Improved negotiation outcomes and confidence in rejecting unsuitable offers.
  • More efficient job searching by quickly disengaging from bad-fit opportunities, thereby saving personal time and emotional energy.

Origin Reddit Post

r/getemployed

I was told I wasted the hiring manager's time because I rejected the job offer.

Posted by u/RhiannonKoch206/02/2025
Recently, I applied for a procurement specialist job at a company, and based on the job description they posted online, I knew I was more than qualified for this position. They called me fo

Top Comments

u/Acceptable-Sense4601
They don’t mind wasting everyone else’s time when they ghost people. Fuck’em
u/ExcitableSarcasm
People have gotten too comfy with running their mouths without consequences for the last 10 or so years.
u/MobNagas
F em stingy bastards
u/ellipticalcow
Oh, that's rich! Do they think they waste candidates' time whenever they make a lowball offer or none at all? Somehow I highly doubt their reasoning cuts both ways.
u/Lola_a_l-eau
What time to waste? It is theyiir job that they have to do anyway. They didn't interviewed you outside of the office hours
u/itsme_Analytical
You seriously are lucky they divulged all those hidden details during the interview so that you were able to then tell them off so matter-of-fact like haha. Well done
u/FarMix1834
You absolutely didn’t waste anyone’s time. The company misrepresented the role and lowballed you despite your strong qualifications. You handled it professionally, and their response just sho
u/FarMix1834
You absolutely didn’t waste anyone’s time. The company misrepresented the role and lowballed you despite your strong qualifications. You handled it professionally, and their response just sho
u/Lola_a_l-eau
What time to waste? It is theyiir job that they have to do anyway. They didn't interviewed you outside of the office hours
u/cassiecx
No. They wasted YOUR time.
u/xl129
You did, good job standing up for yourself!
u/cassiecx
No. They wasted YOUR time.
u/NeverEnoughSunlight
Yep. They hold all the cards.
u/SaltSatisfaction8091
Whoever you spoke with was very unprofessional. Nothing you did caused that. It wasn't a good job. They lied about the job description, the location (that's deceptive & sneaky). Then they
u/Tree06
I'm glad you kicked them to the curb. Low job offer and they wanted you to take on several roles all at once? No thank you. Good luck out there!
u/SaltSatisfaction8091
Whoever you spoke with was very unprofessional. Nothing you did caused that. It wasn't a good job. They lied about the job description, the location (that's deceptive & sneaky). Then they
u/AndrastesTit
That’s incredibly unprofessional. If anything, they wasted your time.
u/Confident-Proof2101
Bullet dodged.
u/NeverEnoughSunlight
That's the problem: there's no mutual respect. It's the BrideZilla phenomenon: IT'S ABOUT ME, ME, ME, ME, ME!!!! OP, I hope you leave a Glassdoor review of that organization every bit as won
u/r4d1229
You dodged a HUGE bullet. Interviews are a two-way street and, by the end, you concluded the spot wasn't for you. They could've concluded you aren't their guy, and I doubt they'd have conside
u/funkohunter717
 unprofessional, but you dodged a bullet by not working there is thats the attitude they have.
u/xl129
You did, good job standing up for yourself!
u/Tree06
I'm glad you kicked them to the curb. Low job offer and they wanted you to take on several roles all at once? No thank you. Good luck out there!
u/Confident-Proof2101
Bullet dodged.
u/mistyskies123
Red flag city - good for you.
u/NightHawkAnon
Yeah, you're too nice and shouldve been brutally honest and blunt with the snide c.s'er.
u/NightHawkAnon
Yeah, you're too nice and shouldve been brutally honest and blunt with the snide c.s'er.
u/Pareia0408
I wish I'd done more negotiating in my previous roles. I recently was offered a job that means I lose my 3 days working from home and have to commute 5 days a week. While the job itself is an
u/aaseandersen
As candidates, we have to be perfect. And then we have to deal with managers and owners that behave like toddlers.
u/fluffyinternetcloud
I would have countered stating I have another offer and if they could match it and make it $40,000 more expensive
u/On-scene
I've regretted not salary negotiationing. Good on ya, super unprofessional of the HR person, wow. Sounds like what could have been friendly back and forth convo about salary went south quick.
u/AndrastesTit
That’s incredibly unprofessional. If anything, they wasted your time.
u/pixelw4lk
Literally, fuck them off. They should be grateful you even applied, companies need to finally understand we as employees are doing them a favour, by working at their company
u/NeverEnoughSunlight
That's the problem: there's no mutual respect. It's the BrideZilla phenomenon: IT'S ABOUT ME, ME, ME, ME, ME!!!! OP, I hope you leave a Glassdoor review of that organization every bit as won
u/mistyskies123
Red flag city - good for you.
u/aaseandersen
As candidates, we have to be perfect. And then we have to deal with managers and owners that behave like toddlers.
u/On-scene
I've regretted not salary negotiationing. Good on ya, super unprofessional of the HR person, wow. Sounds like what could have been friendly back and forth convo about salary went south quick.
u/r4d1229
You dodged a HUGE bullet. Interviews are a two-way street and, by the end, you concluded the spot wasn't for you. They could've concluded you aren't their guy, and I doubt they'd have conside
u/Acceptable-Sense4601
They don’t mind wasting everyone else’s time when they ghost people. Fuck’em
u/pixelw4lk
Literally, fuck them off. They should be grateful you even applied, companies need to finally understand we as employees are doing them a favour, by working at their company
u/NeverEnoughSunlight
Yep. They hold all the cards.
u/itsme_Analytical
You seriously are lucky they divulged all those hidden details during the interview so that you were able to then tell them off so matter-of-fact like haha. Well done
u/funkohunter717
 unprofessional, but you dodged a bullet by not working there is thats the attitude they have.
u/witblacktype
The hiring manager wasted your time
u/Longjumping-Pair2918
HR is just salty their entire department was just replaced with a HireBot
u/MobNagas
F em stingy bastards
u/witblacktype
The hiring manager wasted your time
u/ExcitableSarcasm
People have gotten too comfy with running their mouths without consequences for the last 10 or so years.
u/fluffyinternetcloud
I would have countered stating I have another offer and if they could match it and make it $40,000 more expensive
u/ellipticalcow
Oh, that's rich! Do they think they waste candidates' time whenever they make a lowball offer or none at all? Somehow I highly doubt their reasoning cuts both ways.

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