Rent Reality Check: Is $1850/Month Too Much for Your Salary?

Content Idea: Deconstructing Rent Affordability: Beyond the 30% Rule

  • Recurring Problem/Question: Many users often wonder if a specific rent amount is too high for their income, like "Is $1850 too much on a $75k salary?" They frequently reference or are introduced to rules of thumb like the 30% rule but struggle with how to apply it, especially when considering other financial factors and regional cost differences.

  • Explanation Requested: How do these rules of thumb (like the 30% or 25% rule) actually work? Should they use gross or net income? What other factors should be considered beyond just income vs. rent?

  • User Confusion/Desire for More Info:

    • Uncertainty about whether to use gross or net income for calculations.
    • Confusion about how debt (student loans, car payments, credit cards) impacts affordability.
    • Lack of clarity on how to factor in savings goals (emergency fund, retirement, investments).
    • Difficulty reconciling generic rules with the reality of High Cost of Living (HCOL) areas.
    • The non-financial "value" of independence vs. strict adherence to a rule.

Example Content Scheme:

  • Title Idea: "Is Your Rent Too Damn High? A Real-World Guide to Affordability (Beyond the 30% Rule)"
    • Alternative Titles: "The Renter's Dilemma: What Can You Actually Afford?", "Decoding Rent Affordability: From Rules of Thumb to Your Reality"
  • Target Audience:
    • Young adults (20s-early 30s) considering moving out for the first time.
    • First-time renters.
    • Individuals reassessing their housing budget.
    • People living in or considering moving to HCOL areas.
  • Key Content Points to Cover:
    1. The Classic Rules (and their origins):
      • Explain the 30% rule (rent ≤ 30% of gross monthly income).
      • Briefly mention other rules (e.g., 25% rule, 50/30/20 budget where housing fits into the 50% needs).
    2. Why Rules of Thumb are Just a Starting Point:
      • Gross vs. Net Income: Illustrate the significant difference after taxes and deductions. Emphasize budgeting based on net income.
      • Debt-to-Income (DTI) Ratio: Explain what it is, how to calculate it, and why landlords and lenders care. Show how high DTI shrinks true rent affordability.
      • Savings Goals are Non-Negotiable: Stress the importance of an emergency fund, retirement contributions (like a 401k), and other savings goals before determining max rent.
      • The HCOL Factor: Acknowledge that in cities like NYC, Boston, SF, or even Hoboken, the 30% rule might be very difficult to stick to without significant compromises or higher income. Discuss realistic expectations and trade-offs.
      • Other Living Expenses: Utilities, transportation, groceries, etc., which vary by location and lifestyle.
    3. A More Holistic Approach to Rent Affordability:
      • Step 1: Calculate Your Actual Take-Home Pay (Net Income).
      • Step 2: List ALL Your Debts and Minimum Payments.
      • Step 3: Define Your Essential Savings Goals (Emergency Fund, Retirement).
      • Step 4: Estimate Other Essential Monthly Expenses (food, transport, utilities, insurance).
      • Step 5: What's Left? This is a more realistic pool for rent + discretionary spending.
      • Work Backwards: Show how to decide on a comfortable rent figure from this remaining amount, ensuring a buffer.
    4. The "Is It Worth It?" Factor: Briefly touch upon the quality of life aspects (privacy, independence, commute) but emphasize these should be considered after establishing a financially sound baseline.
    5. Actionable Tip: Provide a simple worksheet template or a link to a budget calculator that incorporates these factors.

This content directly addresses the user's scenario (rent amount, income, HCOL area, existing savings) and the common advice patterns seen in the comments, while also expanding on the nuances often overlooked.

Origin Reddit Post

r/personalfinance

Moving out - is $1850 too much?

Posted by u/Equivalent-Top84105/28/2025
Background - 24(m) have lived at home for around 3 years and have ~$110k in brokerage & $17,000 in 401(k). I currently make $75,000 base with variable commission around $10,000 - $15,000

Top Comments

u/Tobeorknotobe
Rough rule of thumb is don’t spend more than 30% of your income on housing. You are very close to 30% and in a year or 2 with raises it will be even less. I’d recommend living independently
u/Equivalent-Top841
Thankfully no debt
u/chilidoggo
Rule of thumb is you can generally afford 1/4 of your income in housing. $1850 is a little bit high. This is the financial advice subreddit, so I can't put a price on your "life, privacy, f
u/Delsym_Wiggins
You didn't tell us about any debt you have.  But I say go for it!! 
u/Equivalent-Top841
Hoboken NJ for context
u/4look4rd
You should be fine, I paid about that on my first apartment on a 65k income ten years ago. Money wasn’t even that tight. Look for commuter benefits. Here in DC most employers will offer up t
u/wilsonw
1850 a month is a lot or a deal depending on where you are. Is this US? HCOL area?
u/Equivalent-Top841
Hoboken NJ for context
u/ShroomSensei
We can’t really help without knowing the city and a bit more on the apartment. $1850 for a 300 sqft studio apartment in Dallas is awful. $1850 for that in New York City is a unicorn.
u/Tina271
I'm assuming the heat and HW are electric. That can be a lot of money. What is the history of this bill for this property? Perhaps a roommate in a two bedroom could make it more affordable.
u/Equivalent-Top841
Great point regarding emergency fund, I have that but forgot to put in post. It’s at exactly 20k looking to keep adding each paycheck
u/fawningandconning
That's a steal for Hoboken for a 1BR! You can afford that. My first apartment in NYC I made about what you do and paid that for just a bedroom in a 3BR in Manhattan.
u/xkxzkyle
$1,850 for a 1 bed on hoboken? Honestly sounds low. Cheapest my friends have for a 1 bed is $2,400. I’d say that’s a good deal and you’ll love it here man.

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